Ruined Orgasm – What is it?

Ruined orgasm, you heard of it but never thought you would want to try or enjoy the fetish.

Have you recently joined the male chastity the likeliness is you have heard of it?

However, if you have never heard of the fetish it is when people enjoy not enjoying an orgasm?

Strange but so true, they enjoy the control and dominance of the keyholder over their ultimate pleasure

Furthermore, it is a fantasy people want to experience once used as an advantage during BDSM play as punishment.

So just the fact that you can and will do something cruel like this is a significant turn on for your chastise and sometimes even you.

The fact is your servant likes the idea so much the orgasm is stronger when you ruin it for them.

Here we will go over the types of ruined orgasms and methods you can use.

How to Ruin an Orgasm More  

The Point of No Return

So what is a wholly ruined orgasm? It is one where the sub reaches no point of return and receives no further stimulation.

Furthermore, you completely withdraw the hands and leave him with only air.

The process is tricky; he can tell you when he is close to reaching the edge and you can stop right when he is near.

Therefore, you can punish as you see fit.

Otherwise, you can go a couple of strokes after announcing he is close, as it should give you enough notification on how much stimulation he can still handle.

However, make it only a stroke or two each time to get the most of the ruined orgasm.

Alternatively, you can keep your sub honest by stopping, as your lover gets close.

By doing this, you can get the best out of this orgasm control game. Now you may be wondering how do you judge a bust orgasm?

The best way is to compare how much your lover came compared to other times when doing it the usual way.

If you found loads of cum, the likeliness is he secretly enjoyed it, and you went on too long.

On the other hand, a person who has a strong fetish for ruining their orgasm enjoys it more than a pure orgasm!

Furthermore, there are many alternatives to ruining a subs orgasm, whether for dominating or fun.

Common Variants of a Ruined Orgasm

Ruining and Orgasm

Another variant that is common to ruin an orgasm is to restrict the flow of love juice. So how do you do this?

Once your toy hits the point of no return, you squeeze his dick under the head or at the base.

Do it tightly to prevent cum from coming out. On the other hand, you can put your thumb over the cock head as controlling the flow of water running out a garden hose (thumbing the orgasm.)

You can do this using your finger or tape as the less cum gives less enjoyable orgasms ruining the orgasm completely.

So why is the orgasm, less fun for him?

The semen is backing up in the tubes, causing discomfort and a busted orgasm.

However, if you find yourself concerned with this, you can let more cum escape.

Another method to ruining an orgasm is physical pain. By being strict, it takes some of the satisfaction away; however, once he approaches that point of no return, his discomfort threshold can go way up.

You may find your slave finds this hands-off approach better, especially if they like CBT or pain.

What’s more, you can do this by flicking the head of the dick or slapping the cock.

Another option is the balls by slapping them hard or even squeezing them.

Post orgasm torture is another method known as palming. All you do is lubricate the cock well and use your palm on the head.

While it can make it, more pleasurable, it can become uncomfortable for your partner that are sensitive before having an orgasm.

We recommend you do the palm before your lover hits the point to see his reaction.

Pleasure Like Never Before

Ruined Orgasm Distraction

Orgasm Distraction

While there are many ways to distract, your lover, the best approach is to have ice on hand to place on the cock and balls.

It numbs away the pleasure and gives him temperature shock.

Furthermore, you can make a sudden noise, pour lemon juice in their mouth, or shine a bright light in the eyes.

So what does it do? All it does is scare the sub into an entirely ruined orgasm.

Therefore, distraction can be the best way to ruin an orgasm, but you will need to keep coming up with new ones.

What are the mental aspects of ruining an orgasm?

Mental Aspects of Ruining Orgasm

Here we recommend if your lover has a fetish about ruining his orgasm, it is best to inform the sub ahead of time.

Depending on his or her interest, the anticipation makes playing beforehand either more or less enjoyable.

By making it clear, he cannot do anything about what is going to happen with his ruined orgasm.

Alternatively, you can get your slave to hold back his orgasm, giving a more complete ruined orgasm.  

Furthermore, it takes the fun out of it if your sub has a strong fetish for it.

On the other hand, if you want to ruin it completely, you can ask not to come or motivate to try to hold back.

However, it can be mean as your slave is trying to behave and can lead to misbehavior. You do not want them to misbehave!

Alternatively, it can also lead to your lover feeling horny or unsatisfied.

The truth is different approaches fit various subs, and it is best to pick something exciting for both of you.

Alternatives to Provide a Ruined Orgasm

Male Chastity Orgasm Denial

One great way to ruin his orgasm is to lock him in a male chastity cock cage.

Your lovers locked up anxiously waiting for the release and have a ruined orgasm fetish the likeliness is it will intensify the feeling.  

However, it all depends on your man and could be a reward or punishment or even both.

Therefore, the best is to experiment and find out what works for both of you.

Furthermore, if ruined orgasm is not for you, try some other unique ways like a nipple or testicle stimulation or even prostate massaging.