Are you in a Femdom relationship? Are you ready to go all the way and add chastity to your list? However, what is femdom chastity, and what does it entail?
The truth is whether you want your bad behavior to be corrected or your orgasms controlled by your woman, the methods and outcomes remain the same.
Whether you bring chastity into the relationship using devices manufactured for punishment to keep you chaste the fact remains your orgasms always at the pleasure of your Domme.
A fact is that it takes control and trust to enjoy and carry it out properly. Here you can find all the different ways how chastity can add splendor to your relationship.
Femdom Chastity Controlling Your Mans Dick
One cannot talk about femdom chastity without talking about all the different devices available to keep that cock safely locked away.
As you know the penis cannot get any naughty pleasure as it’s ordered to stay away from sexual relief. Luckily we do not live in the olden days when it came to sexual repression!
A fact is that most chastity devices had painful spikes to press the enlarged penis, forcing it to deflate and caused mind-shattering pain. Why as it was a big no-no as erection do not go hand-in-hand with sexual denial.
While you can still find these spiked chastity devices, it comes recommended for experience couples to use. However, it is a dangerous game and not recommended.
These devices can cause severe pain, cuts, and infections. So if you do want to bring pain and discomfort into your femdom chastity relationship, you need to do it with utmost care.
The most common method for new disciplined users is the chastity cage and belt to give you a complete lack of orgasm. These devices wrap around your penis to keep it where it should be out of the hands’ way.
You can find a wide selection of variations available from ball stretchers to chastity devices with butt plugs. Furthermore, you can even mind models custom made to fit your lifestyle and needs.
All of the devices come with a lock and key, and the only way to remove it is with your Domme approval.
Egotism and Chastisement is Your Choice
Depending on what type of couple you are, you do not always have to use chastity. Sometimes even a threat of punishment is more than enough to keep your obedient male from touching himself.
However, to obtain total obedience, you still need to hand out a few punishments to attain the goal. Furthermore, it also depends on how much you and your submissive spend time apart.
Therefore you may need to employ different methods to ensure he has not enjoyed any orgasm while you are apart. What is more, you need to remember that the penis will be emitting ejaculation long after reaching an orgasm.
As a result, it is impossible to keep the underwear from not getting stained after the submissive has masturbated. No matter how much your man tries to remove everything, there will always be some evidence left behind.
Once that erection starts going down the fluid oozes out and stays behind. So the only way your sub will be able to prove his innocence is by presenting you with clean underwear.
If you find any wet spot, the chance is he took it upon himself to enjoy an orgasm without your presence, and this is where the punishment begins.
The chastisement needs to be intense enough for your submissive not to try their luck again.
Sexual Frustration with Male Chastity
A big part of chastity is sexual frustration and very beneficial to use by the Domme as part of punishment or reward. A fact is that men feel they must orgasm.
Furthermore, the longer they go without it, the more they crave it until it becomes part of an obsession. Now, this is where the Femdom can find most of his or her power especially with devices used in the relationship.
You can use the dives against your sub’s orgasm to make sure he is obedient and doing things according to your wishes. If he is a good boy and does what you want him to do, he may find himself experiencing an orgasm once every few weeks.
Always make him wait until he reaches the fever pitch making him understand that he is not getting it because he wants its but has earned it.
How does Femdom Chastity Orgasm Work
Once you permit him an orgasm it all depends on where he is within the relationship. If it is actual sex with the Domme it should be a rare occurrence.
The body of the Domme is a divine temple that the sub is never allowed to touch unless permitted. Furthermore, once permission is given you do find that many Domme uses their feet bringing their subs to pleasure.
Doing this reminds the slave that he belongs on the floor as his mistress stands above. Another alternative is for the sub to masturbate in front of the Domme.
These two methods are the most dependable choice. It can cause humiliation for the slave and feeds back into the relationship. No matter how you plan to go with your Femdom chastity it is rewarding and fun.
The important thing is to keep it safe, always making it your primary concern. Always be honest and open in your relationship as trust plays an integral part in chastity.
Furthermore, femdom chastity should work for both partners.