Permanent Chastity Reality – Never take lightly !

Reality of Male Celibacy

Permanent Chastity you should never take lightly! So why do we say this?

The reality is you and your lover should see it as a lifestyle change that can be extreme and rewarding at the same time.

Couples want to test the waters, as chastity is a fantasy! However, how safe is enforced chastity for long-term use?

The answer permanent chastity is COMPLETELY SAFE as long as there are safety measures in place, and you follow proper hygiene.

On the other hand, your sub man needs time to adjust to the new reality while wearing the chastity cock cage.

These are essential factors to have an enjoyable permanent chastity experience! So how do you prepare your man for long-term chastity?

Get all the ins and outs right here!

Find the Perfect Permanent Chastity Device

Enforced Male Chastity Device

What is the best male chastity device?

Excellent question it is the one that fits you!

You can spend your money on the Fancy Steel Chastity Slim Fit Belt or the CB6000 male cock cage the fact remains it needs to fit snug and not too tight.

The device must feel comfortable without rubbing or pinching against any part of the penis or testicles.

Therefore, your penis cage needs to fit like a glove.

So make sure to note if you see any red marks, chafing, rubbing, and pain and more while wearing.

Furthermore, do not go and choose a cock ring one size smaller, thinking a tight fit is more effective for long-term chastity.

A fact is that it is hazardous to your penis and health. You do not want to feel chafed or have sensitive skin during your permanent chastity.

As a result, how do you know if the cock rings are a perfect size?

If you can wear it four hours without your balls, slipping out you have the right fit.

Alternatively, you can place your middle finger between your skin and the ring up to the first joint.

Lastly, for long-term use choosing a cage that is slightly larger than your dick might not be the best solution.

So why choose a snugger fit? When it fits snug, it lines up well with the urethra making it comfortable to pee.

At least you will not end up peeing on your foot. 

Think about hygiene!

Long-Term Health Care

With permanent chastity, hygiene plays an important role.

You need to keep it clean when wearing it for extended periods to prevent odor from forming as it leads to a big turnoff.

While stainless steel cages have ample holes with breathable areas, the device remains locked.

Get yourself a showerhead you can set to high to flush-unwanted fluids out of the cage.

Furthermore, get some Q-tips to clean your cock.

Lastly, make sure to dry the cage after getting it wet to prevent unpleasant smells and more.  

Preparing your man for long-term chastity

Locked Permanently

While allowing your sub having one orgasm a year keeps him eager to serve you and something to look forward to—you need to get him used to it at first.

Therefore, you can get a short-term chastity device to begin the training for the first few months. Start with a full month before you give your sub a break.

Leave him at least for a week to ease the body and allow him to orgasm to prepare the mind mentally. You may even find he wants to cage longer as the orgasms more tremendous caged.

After the week, get him back into the device for one more month. Now is the time to challenge his obedience and devotion.

Chastity Teasing

So keep his libido high with some teasing and temptation.

Do this by asking for oral sex at least once a week; however, let him rest for a week after completing a month. Now you can start shopping for a permanent chastity device that is safe to wear.

On the other hand, now you need to give him his last sexual pleasure and lock in up for good. He will become the slave you desire and want.

However, permanent male chastity is not for everyone and can remain a far-fetched fantasy.

What are the effects of Permanent Chastity?

Myths of Enforced Chastity

While there are many myths around permanent chastity wearing a cock cage for the long term is healthy and safe.

So what are the myths around wearing a chastity device long-term?

Will it cause erectile dysfunction?

The myth is untrue, and it does not cause difficulty peeing, erectile dysfunction, or any other problems related to the function of the penis.

Urologists have consulted these matters and found no side effects associated with it.

Chastity causes nocturnal pain

Another fable that is not true. Many people say that wearing a cock can cause severe pain when you get an erection throughout the night.

The truth is that if you have a properly fitted chastity device, it should not cause any problems.

The only time it may cause discomfort is if you sleep on your stomach. Some subs have mentioned minor chafing due to this.

On the other hand, many men prefer staying un-caged overnight a couple of times per month as the nocturnal erection helps promote blood flow to your penis.

Therefore, discuss it with your keyholder for overnight uncaging.

Causes shrinkage

When you do permanent chastity, it makes your balls and penis small. Here we have another myth that is true for some users, while others found no change at all.

The fact is if you have extended periods of male chastity for a couple of months and more not having an erection or orgasm could cause shrinking of the erectile tissue on your dick.

However, if concerned, this might happen to you, talk to your mistress, or master to schedule frequent orgasms or overnight un-caging instead.

Male Chastity is Safe but say no to Spikes

Male Chastity Device with Nails

Taking part in permanent chastity has some mere myths associated with it due to misinformation.

However, there is one truly dangerous cock cage the spiked chastity device!

You can find a male chastity device that has spikes known as anti-pullout pins on the inside tube.

Why is it there? It prevents the man from pulling his cock out of the invention.

If you try to break out, the spikes dig into your dick, and it’s painful. The same thing happens when you touch yourself or get an erection.


Spiked Chastity Device Pain

These anti-pullout pins cause long-term harm and are dangerous. The fact is whether you do enforce chastity for years or short-term celibacy involuntary nighttime erections continue to happen.

There is a reason why a man wakes up with morning glory, as it is the body’s way to ensure that blood circulates properly.

Furthermore, it is normal and healthy.

Not only will these pins cut into the penis during the night it causes abrasions as well.

So if you are planning long-term chastity, use a male cock cage that is safe.

Sexual Pleasure after Chastity

Key holder’s think of it this way, what use is your subs penis for you when you do release him from captivity if his dick is bruised and not able to function.

So choose a comfortable fitting man’s chastity device to achieve great results.

Femdom Chastity Explained

Femdom Chastity

Are you in a Femdom relationship? Are you ready to go all the way and add chastity to your list? However, what is femdom chastity, and what does it entail?

The truth is whether you want your bad behavior to be corrected or your orgasms controlled by your woman, the methods and outcomes remain the same.  

Whether you bring chastity into the relationship using devices manufactured for punishment to keep you chaste the fact remains your orgasms always at the pleasure of your Domme.

A fact is that it takes control and trust to enjoy and carry it out properly. Here you can find all the different ways how chastity can add splendor to your relationship.

Femdom Chastity Controlling Your Mans Dick

Medieval Femdom Chastity

One cannot talk about femdom chastity without talking about all the different devices available to keep that cock safely locked away.

As you know the penis cannot get any naughty pleasure as it’s ordered to stay away from sexual relief. Luckily we do not live in the olden days when it came to sexual repression!

Chastity Torture Device

A fact is that most chastity devices had painful spikes to press the enlarged penis, forcing it to deflate and caused mind-shattering pain. Why as it was a big no-no as erection do not go hand-in-hand with sexual denial.

While you can still find these spiked chastity devices, it comes recommended for experience couples to use. However, it is a dangerous game and not recommended.

These devices can cause severe pain, cuts, and infections. So if you do want to bring pain and discomfort into your femdom chastity relationship, you need to do it with utmost care.

Male Chastity Belt

The most common method for new disciplined users is the chastity cage and belt to give you a complete lack of orgasm. These devices wrap around your penis to keep it where it should be out of the hands’ way.  

You can find a wide selection of variations available from ball stretchers to chastity devices with butt plugs. Furthermore, you can even mind models custom made to fit your lifestyle and needs.

Chastity Lock and Key

All of the devices come with a lock and key, and the only way to remove it is with your Domme approval.

Egotism and Chastisement is Your Choice

Male Domination

Depending on what type of couple you are, you do not always have to use chastity. Sometimes even a threat of punishment is more than enough to keep your obedient male from touching himself.

However, to obtain total obedience, you still need to hand out a few punishments to attain the goal. Furthermore, it also depends on how much you and your submissive spend time apart.

Therefore you may need to employ different methods to ensure he has not enjoyed any orgasm while you are apart. What is more, you need to remember that the penis will be emitting ejaculation long after reaching an orgasm.

As a result, it is impossible to keep the underwear from not getting stained after the submissive has masturbated. No matter how much your man tries to remove everything, there will always be some evidence left behind.

Once that erection starts going down the fluid oozes out and stays behind. So the only way your sub will be able to prove his innocence is by presenting you with clean underwear.

If you find any wet spot, the chance is he took it upon himself to enjoy an orgasm without your presence, and this is where the punishment begins.

The chastisement needs to be intense enough for your submissive not to try their luck again.

Sexual Frustration with Male Chastity

Medieval Spanking

A big part of chastity is sexual frustration and very beneficial to use by the Domme as part of punishment or reward. A fact is that men feel they must orgasm.

Furthermore, the longer they go without it, the more they crave it until it becomes part of an obsession. Now, this is where the Femdom can find most of his or her power especially with devices used in the relationship.

You can use the dives against your sub’s orgasm to make sure he is obedient and doing things according to your wishes. If he is a good boy and does what you want him to do, he may find himself experiencing an orgasm once every few weeks.

Always make him wait until he reaches the fever pitch making him understand that he is not getting it because he wants its but has earned it.

How does Femdom Chastity Orgasm Work

Sexual Pleasure

Once you permit him an orgasm it all depends on where he is within the relationship. If it is actual sex with the Domme it should be a rare occurrence.

The body of the Domme is a divine temple that the sub is never allowed to touch unless permitted. Furthermore, once permission is given you do find that many Domme uses their feet bringing their subs to pleasure.

Doing this reminds the slave that he belongs on the floor as his mistress stands above. Another alternative is for the sub to masturbate in front of the Domme.

These two methods are the most dependable choice. It can cause humiliation for the slave and feeds back into the relationship. No matter how you plan to go with your Femdom chastity it is rewarding and fun.

The important thing is to keep it safe, always making it your primary concern. Always be honest and open in your relationship as trust plays an integral part in chastity.

Furthermore, femdom chastity should work for both partners.